Sunday, July 27
i did lots of thinking today . ( galvin kor , this is all your fault . )
i realised something ..
sometimes ,
when we are really sad , we tend to do some foolish things .
but when adults see what you are about to do ,
we hear them asking us to calm down and think again ..
however ,
most of the time ,
we never listened to them , thinking that they are very nagging and noisy .
but after we did that foolish thing , we would always regret ..
regret not listening to them ,
regret for doing that thing ,
regret for even having that thought of doing that mistake .
and we always want to reverse time to set everything right again .
and we know its impossible to go back in time .
but adults , let me tell you .
so what if you are more mature ?
does it mean that you would be come a more perfect person ?
or does it mean that you wouldnt repeat some mistakes that we teenages have done ?
this is that i truly realised :
when a person is really really sad ( and i mean the almost going crazy type ) ,
people tend to lose control .
whether it is control over their feelings ,
or their actions .
so , no matter what we do or what we say , that sad person would never listen .
to me , the only solution is not to beat them , scold them , or lock them up .
instead , we should show that person that he /she that they has people who are really concerned about them , give them time to relax and think over things , ask them why they are unhappy .
violence is never a solution to solve a problem .
it is just a tactic to stall for time , an escape route .
like some people said ,
We can RUN , But We CANT HIDE .
the problem would be either left unsolved , or will create more problems .
so , no matter what problem you face , face it together with a person you trust .
if not , ask me along .
whoever who you are , or what problems you have , i will be there to help you .
(:
see , i am a kind human being .
xD
lols .
Thats all she wrote . Sunday, July 27, 2008.
